Friendship is one of the most beautiful and enriching relationships we experience in life. It is not bound by blood, obligation, or expectation—it thrives purely on connection, understanding, and a sense of belonging. True friendship exists when two or more individuals come together without the underlying question of “What will I gain from this?” It is selfless, genuine, and deeply human.
When a child is born, they are naturally surrounded by biological relationships—parents, siblings, and extended family. These relationships are foundational and shape our early lives. However, as the child steps into the larger world—schools, colleges, and universities—they begin to form social relationships. These bonds are chosen, nurtured, and built over shared experiences, emotions, and memories. Interestingly, some of these social connections grow so strong that they can feel even deeper and more enduring than biological ties.
I often reflect on my own journey of friendships. I have friends like Nilima and Sangeeta from my school days. Life has taken us in different directions, and we may not meet frequently, but whenever we do, it feels as though time has stood still. The warmth, the laughter, and the comfort of being understood without explanation—those moments remind me that true friendship never fades; it simply waits.
Similarly, during my time in medical school, I had the privilege of forming friendships with colleagues from diverse parts of the state. Whether it was Shailesh, Milind, Vibha, Umesh, Sammita, Abhay, Vandana, Sanjay, Suhas… though we studied in the same class from 1981-1989, the friendship continues even after 40 years. not only with them but also with their spouses. Each friend brings unique perspectives, cultures, and stories. Today, we are all deeply engaged in our professional lives, yet we make a point of reconnecting whenever possible. When we meet, titles and responsibilities are left behind. We become students again—sharing ideas, laughing freely, and reliving the simplicity and joy of our college days.
These experiences have shaped my belief that friendship is not just about companionship or shared enjoyment. It is also a powerful medium for growth. Through friendships, we learn to see the world through different lenses. We become more empathetic, more accepting, and more aware of the richness of diversity around us.
This is something I always emphasise to students: make friends from different regions, backgrounds, and cultures. Don’t limit your circle to those who are similar to you. True learning often happens outside textbooks—in conversations, in shared meals, in understanding traditions different from your own. Friendships built on diversity help us become more sensitive, respectful, and inclusive individuals.
In a world that is increasingly interconnected yet sometimes divided, friendships have the power to bridge gaps. They teach us that despite our differences, there is so much that connects us as human beings.
So, cherish your friends—old and new. Nurture those bonds, even if life gets busy. Because in the end, it is these relationships that add meaning, colour, and warmth to our lives.